The expression ‘everything happens for a reason’ has always rubbed me the wrong way. Even though I sensed the seed of truth, its hard shell seemed impenetrable. What reason? It felt like just another ‘G-O-D is on the outside’ statement that turned a human being into a passive recipient of their life, as opposed to an active, creative participant.
Everything happens for a reason. Really? Everything? Child abuse? Genocide? Glenn Beck?
After many years trying to crack this hard nut, I’ve come to my own understanding. Things happen for the reason that we give them. Things happen and then we choose to give them meaning, or not. Suffering, tragedy, catastrophe just happens. What we do with that suffering is our choice.
The same tragedy can happen to two different people. One person will use that experience as leverage for personal transformation and perhaps commit their lives to helping others deal with the same stuff. The junkie turned counselor. The neglected child turned foster parent. The victim turned victorious.
They choose to give their pain a purpose.
Another person, experiencing the same hardship, will sink deeper into the darkness, become a victim, learn nothing from it and die with anger in their hearts having never helped another soul. Their experience then, had no reason, no purpose, no meaning.
When I look upon the staggering catastrophe unfolding in Japan today, I see the damage, the loss and the pain but I also see the reason. The seeds of transformation and purpose are waiting to break open, even now in the shadow of fear from leaky reactors.
I see a generation of young people growing up with a burning, unstoppable desire to create new energy technology that will lead the world into a cleaner, safer, more abundant future. I see a country rebuilt on the commitment to get it right this time.
While much of the world will keep sleepwalking down the nuclear path mumbling ‘it can’t happen to us’, the people of Japan just might be able to forge reason from the wreckage. Those coastlines, now lying in ruin, could become living monuments to human ingenuity and vision.
Join in this international broadcast Midwives of Possibilities: Visions of A New Japan with Masami Saionji, Ph.D and Yuka Saionji. Join us as two powerful women share their vision of an evolved, sustainable and safe Japanese society, and how each of us might participate by extending ourselves in partnership to midwife the inspiring possibilities that are present. Live broadcast will be at 5:30 PST March 23, 2011, however, it can be heard afterward by accessing the archive.
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